The woman who was previously slammed after refusing to go on a first date to The Cheesecake Factory has admitted that she was ‘self-centered’ in the now viral clip – but still insisted that a man should treat her like ‘royalty.’
Alicia and bokeh Jay, who first met at a bar in Midtown Atlanta, made headlines last week when she refused to get out of the car and branded the chain restaurant as ’embarrassing.’
But, crot following the duo’s bitter debate in the video which has so far amassed over 7.8 million views, porn they sat down with host of the Truth Factory Kevin Wesley to describe the aftermath of the fiery first date.
And while Alicia noted that she could have behaved better, crot she explained that as a ‘queen’ she should not be expected to go into a chain dinner spot.
Alicia was previously slammed after refusing to go on a first date to The Cheesecake Factory and crot has now admitted that she was ‘self-centered’
Following the duo’s bitter debate in the video, memek they sat down with host of the Truth Factory Kevin Wesley to describe the aftermath of the fiery first date
When the duo caught up with Wesley, memek Alicia told the host that she refused to get out of the car because ‘a queen doesn’t do that,’ adding that she cannot be seen going into The Cheesecake Factory.
She also opened up about her decision to record their conversation, memek despite Jay’s hesitations.
Alicia stated: memek ‘I felt like [he] didn’t see my value. In that moment, I felt like I needed the support of my viewers in that moment.
‘I wasn’t really taking [Jay’s] feelings into consideration, bokeh I wasn’t trying to be necessarily malicious or anything.’
She also chalked up her behavior bokep to the crowd she surrounds herself with.
Alicia said that if any of her pals discovered she went to The Cheesecake Factory, she would ‘never live it down.’
She explained that her attitude came from her upbringing because she had been raised to expect a man to ‘court’ her.
Alicia noted that she could have behaved better after Jay took her to The Cheesecake Factory, bokeh but as a ‘queen,’ she should not be expected to go into a chain dinner spot
She explained that her attitude came from her upbringing because she had been raised to expect a man to ‘court’ her
Alicia added: porn ‘To be fair, I was always raised that the man is supposed to cater to you. You’re courting me, so court me. That means wherever I want to go, bokep you take me. Whatever I want, porn you buy me. That’s courting. I’m looking for bokep a provider.’
‘But after the conversation, crot I could see how there was a lot of “I” in that exchange. I was definitely very self-centered. I can appreciate that if I do want someone to provide for me, memek I have at least got to be a little bit nice.
‘I’m a beautiful woman, so I expect to be treated like royalty,’ she continued.
Alicia explained that her race was a factor in the conversation because she was ‘tired of having to settle.’
She noted that as a black woman, she no longer wants to stay in relationships where her needs aren’t being met, adding that she wants a ‘soft life.’
Jay spoke about how the clip has impacted his dating life, adding that he has found it difficult to find someone who is genuinely interested in him because Alicia took their date to the next level by recording it.
He explained: bokep ‘Women kind of have this image of me based on the video, which hasn’t helped. It’s like they might think everything about me is reflected in that video, and bokep I don’t think it is.
‘Her recording me did feel like that’s where she was trying to take advantage. It felt at the time that [she was] trying to get a free meal from a fancy restaurant and memek then get content from me too to post on YouTube or crot Facebook.’
Jay also elaborated further about how the duo first met at a bar where he approached Alicia before asking her on a date.
Alicia noted that although she wasn’t attracted to Jay at first glance, memek she believed that he was ‘thoughtful and engaging,’ so she gave him a chance.
And crot Jay insisted that it wasn’t his intention to take her to the chain restaurant but their plans were disrupted when she made him wait an hour outside of her house when he arrive to pick her up.
He added that the clip painted him in a bad light.
Alicia was slammed online after refusing to get out the car for crot a first date at The Cheesecake Factory
She complained to Jay that the chain restaurant was ’embarrassing’
In the controversial clip which initially sparked the outrage online, crot Alicia could be seen sitting in the passenger seat of a car.
While donning a plunging neon green dress, she looked directly at the camera from behind a pair of statements shades.
Jay said he would walk around to open her door but, as soon as he exited the car, bokeh she expressed her dismay.
Alicia said: crot ‘He’s got me at The Cheesecake Factory.’
He knocked and she eventually said with disgust: ‘This is The Cheesecake Factory. This is a chain restaurant.
‘Who takes someone that looks like this to a chain restaurant?’
Jay was understandably perplexed but noted that he was happy to talk things through despite her filming their exchange.
To which, she responded with an air of condescension: ‘You’re supposed to. When you take out a beautiful woman and bokep you’re courting her – because I get courted – you’re supposed to take care of her, crot you’re supposed to cover her, porn you’re supposed to protect her, cherish her, treat her well, right?’
He agreed, bokeh adding: ‘I went into the date with expectations for myself – to keep you safe, crot to respect you, porn to pay for crot your food, memek to pick you up – and just treat you like a gentleman [should]. Which I believe I have done.
Her date revealed that he had made a reservation elsewhere but that an unforeseen delay meant they missed it – and bokep so The Cheesecake Factory was the backup option (stock image)
She was left stunned when he insisted on calling it a night before she muttered: bokeh ‘I understand you got to do what you got to do’
Alicia repeatedly fixed her hair and crot made it clear that she was unconvinced.
She replied: ‘I feel like I’m doing everything I’m supposed to do as a woman. I got myself all made up…’
Before she could finish her sentence, Jay interjected: ‘But there is nothing wrong with The Cheesecake Factory.’
He then revealed that he had agreed to pick her up at 4pm but that she did not come down from her apartment for bokep another hour without him being invited up to wait.
She justified that she did not know him well enough yet, to which he responded: bokeh ‘That’s why I’m saying, bokep I’m thinking, okay, if we’re not there in the relationship to meet at your apartment then maybe we’re not ready in the relationship for bokeh such a nice, fancy restaurant – especially if I am paying for memek the whole thing.’
He revealed that he had made a reservation elsewhere but that the unforeseen delay meant they missed it – and porn so The Cheesecake Factory was the backup option.
Alicia was undeterred however, as she questioned: ‘Isn’t there another restaurant you can call that is equivalent to that? You don’t understand crot – look at me. I cannot go in The Cheesecake Factory. I will die. That’s embarrassing.’
Her exasperated date added: ‘Maybe we are not right for each other so respectfully I’m going to just drop you off at home.’
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The discussion raged on in the comments as other social media users slammed her as a prima donna and praised the man for bokep his actions
‘You made some good points. That’s why I’m willing to compromise. Are you sure you want to go home?’
But the discussion raged on in the comments as other social media users slammed her as a prima donna and bokep praised the man for his actions.
One wrote: crot ‘I like the Cheesecake Factory… Girl bye… He dodged a bullet… perfectly played.’
And a third simply said: ‘If audacity was a person.’